Elder Jeffrey R. Holland (born December 3, 1940) served as Church Commissioner of Education from 1976-1980, as the president of BYU from 1980-1989, as a Seventy from 1989-1994, and as a member of the Quorum of Twelve Apostles since 1994.
"When you have come to the Lord in meekness and lowliness of heart and, as one mother said, 'pounded on the doors of heaven to ask for, to plead for, to demand guidance and wisdom and help for this wondrous task,' that door is thrown open to provide you the influence and the help of all eternity. Claim the promises of the Savior of the world. Ask for the healing balm of the Atonement for whatever may be troubling you or your children. Know that in faith things will be made right in spite of you, or more correctly, because of you.
"You can’t possibly do this alone, but you do have help. The Master of Heaven and Earth is there to bless you—He who resolutely goes after the lost sheep, sweeps thoroughly to find the lost coin, waits everlastingly for the return of the prodigal son. Yours is the work of salvation, and therefore you will be magnified, compensated, made more than you are and better than you have ever been as you try to make honest effort, however feeble you may sometimes feel that to be.
"Remember, remember all the days of your motherhood: 'Ye have not come thus far save it were by the word of Christ with unshaken faith in him, relying wholly upon the merits of him who is mighty to save.' (2 Ne. 31:19.)
"Rely on Him. Rely on Him heavily. Rely on Him forever. And 'press forward with a steadfastness in Christ, having a perfect brightness of hope.' (2 Ne. 31:20.) You are doing God’s work. You are doing it wonderfully well. He is blessing you and He will bless you, even—no, especially—when your days and your nights may be the most challenging. Like the woman who anonymously, meekly, perhaps even with hesitation and some embarrassment, fought her way through the crowd just to touch the hem of the Master’s garment, so Christ will say to the women who worry and wonder and sometimes weep over their responsibility as mothers, 'Daughter, be of good comfort; thy faith hath made thee whole.' (Matt. 9:22.) And it will make your children whole as well."
- Jeffrey R. Holland, "Because She Is a Mother," General Conference April 1997
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I posted an excerpt from this talk three years ago (Jeffrey R. Holland on praise for mothers), but it is so full of insight and inspiration that I have to share another, and encourage readers to review the complete talk in anticipation of Mother's Day this week.
Part of the power of Elder Holland's address is acknowledging the difficulties and challenges faced by mothers, and the feelings of inadequacy and loneliness that sometimes creep in. He powerfully reassures them of two things: 1) they are doing "wonderfully well" in the task, far better than they sometimes understand; and 2) they have help available from Heaven to bless and sustain. This is a wonderful formula for any of us who struggle with any aspect of our mortality: "Yours is the work of salvation, and therefore you will be magnified, compensated, made more than you are and better than you have ever been as you try to make honest effort, however feeble you may sometimes feel that to be."
Truly, mothers bear some heavy burdens, and where we are in a position to help, we should do all we can to assist in bearing those burdens. But perhaps turning one another to Christ and helping all to know how to draw on His power is the most important thing we can do for each other. There is divine help available for us in powerful ways. There is peace and hope and confidence, through Him. That truth will never change.
(Compilation and commentary by David Kenison, Orem, Utah, 2018)
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